But I wouldn't mess with a much younger man who worked at the same place. You probably should have said 40 year old..first I saw that you said 30 something...maybe he has 'mommy fantasies' or something? I know a couple who married when the guy was 19 and the gal was 33.
As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.“I find it comforting to know that her life goes on when I’m not around,” he said. Plus, I’m talking about outside of the bedroom as well. etc.) But many are not.** She’s choosier, and, unlike the 26-year-olds who think they’ll drop dead if they’re not engaged by 27, married at 28, and prego before 30, she’s looking at life a little differently now.(This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front.I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now.. I'm not questioning our relationship at all just want to hear some opinions. Quite frankly I wouldn't touch a 20 year old bloke with a barge pole and when I was that age I found them horribly immature and only interested in booze and sex.I'm not questioning our relationship at all just want to hear some opinions. Do you think it's wrong for a 19 year old to be with a 31 year old? With my partner (who I moved in with after 3 weeks!! ) I found a companion I had a lot in common with, and we have had our ups and downs, but we're still together, own a house and have 3 kids now.